Firstly :
I believe that every individual is unique beautiful and perfect in themselves.
The personal change I am talking about is the one needed in ones thinking and behaviours so that their real beautiful self hidden under layers of conditioning can shine. That is the side which can change the world.
Some of you may say, Hey I don’t need no changing. I am perfect as is. I forbid those of you to read this post any further. Only because I don’t want to waste your time. People change behaviours only under three circumstances:
- When something is making their life difficult.
- When something makes their life easier.
- When they don’t have a choice.
Of course you are clearly not ready for it if you are comfortable with status quo. The need to change often comes from an external trigger that pokes at an internal dormant yearning.
Let’s look at history. People that have brought in movements that have actually changed the direction for mankind like Mahatma Gandhi,Mother Teresa, Martin Luther King, Ashoka the great etc. went through stages in their lives where they underwent radical changes themselves. Only a shift at a subconscious level allows true transformation to take place in a person.
A good coach can facilitate this.
The world is very smart, it knows when you have managed to transform your self, then it allows you to change IT very easily – for the better.
I am an ICF Certified Executive Coach. Please feel free to reach me at bhavnadalal@gmail.com to learn more.